Body language is one of the most important things that will help you understand your child and ease of communication with him and in order to succeed in raising the child in a good way, you should avoid some signs that you may be doing without focus in front of your child and you do not realize that it may harm him psychologically seriously because the child is a certain age stage is imitative of all the actions, movements and behaviors that may be signals of the language of the body or other so 5 signals must be careful when using them with the child.
Some body language signs are forbidden in front of the child:
Pointing at him with the index finger while talking.
This is one of the most aggressive signs in body language that expresses threats and threats that can cause fear and terror to your child because of this signal and make him think you are threatening him when you may be explaining something to him and not literally threatening him with speech.
The signal is in the hand.
This is the most noticeable sign for most parents because most of them do not realize its meaning, because we find the father merges with his child to speak and tries to explain to him one of the things and repeats this signal as if he is cutting something by his hand and he does not realize that it attracts the attention of the child and makes him afraid of the movement of his hand and approaching him.
Close the fist firmly in front of him
This signal provokes fear and terror in your child because it is understood that you have a clear desire to hit someone or something with it and repeat this signal nervously with a sulky face that will make your child panic and may cry and try to escape in front of you.
Not looking at him while he’s talking to you.
You find the child seeking to talk to you and wants to tell you things that are not important from your point of view and during his words you get busy looking at the phone or tv or the newspaper this signal makes him feel uninterested and neglected for him and his words and negatively affect him and make him think that you do not care about him at all.
The sharp look, the look from the top of the glasses and the strong looks towards him make him feel scared, threatened and insecure.