Anxiety: How do you overcome the anxiety that others cause you?

Oddly enough, we often face the disasters of life with rare courage and beautiful patience and then let the trivia overcome us and cause us a lot of heartaches. The real tragedy is that this trivia has caused so many marital relationships to be demolished and many murders. And all you need to overcome that trivia is to turn our attention to another destination because if we overpay attention to trivia, we worry about it, but if you don’t pay attention to it, you will forget it completely.

However, when we abhor our enemies, we allow them to prevail over us and our comfort, health, and happiness, and our enemies will dance singing if they know how much they cause us anxiety. Our abhorrence of them does not harm them, but it harms us and brings our days and nights to hell. As Confucius said, “It does not harm you insult or sprint, but it harms you to think about them.” Forgive your enemies or at least don’t allow yourself to think about them by being preoccupied with a major issue that smalls any abuse of your person. And we must always remember that sooner or later one will pay for the evils he has done so do not waste your time trying revenge but pity your enemies and thank God that he did not create you like them.

The anxiety and anger that afflicts us because of the inference of others; we have to accept the existence of indecency in human nature, and know that you will not win love as long as you ask for and wait for it, but win it when you stop demanding it and start bestowing it without waiting for it for a response or a doubt.

So if you want happiness, stop thinking about or waiting for thanksgiving and give for the intention of giving itself. Many parents complain about the indecency of their children, but how can they thank the children unless we give them back to thanks? Ingratitude is an instinct like fungal herbs and thanksgiving like a flower that does not grow, except watering and watering. If we don’t give our children back to others, how can we expect them to thank us? So accustom your children to the appreciation of other people’s favor and thank them for it, and this will be reflected in their treatment of you as well.

So if you want happiness, stop thinking about or waiting for thanksgiving and give for the intention of giving itself. Many parents complain about the indecency of their children, but how can they thank the children unless we give them back to thanks? Ingratitude is an instinct like fungal herbs and thanksgiving like a flower that does not grow, except watering and watering. If we don’t give our children back to others, how can we expect them to thank us? So accustom your children to the appreciation of other people’s favor and thank them for it, and this will be reflected in their treatment of you as well.

Know that as important as you are, criticism is directed at you, and many people find healing in the criticism of someone superior to culture, position, or success, so be intractable to criticism and focus your efforts on the work that you feel is right from your depths to stigmatize your ears afterward for all the blame for the blames. This does not prevent you from remembering that only fools are driven by anger because of what is directed at them, but rational people are eager to realize what the blame entails from the truth to avoid those mistakes.